I was in a supermarket last Thursday holding a tin of tomatoes, doing the quiet arithmetic that retirement teaches you.
This week's budget. That month's pension. The numbers all behave. Just about.
The man next to me was on his phone. Loud. Confident. About thirty-five. Talking about markets with the brisk certainty of someone who has never once had to do sums in a supermarket aisle.
He didn't ask me anything.
Nobody does.
I spent 46 years at sea. I watched inflation do in the 1970s exactly what it's doing now. I watched the Cold War end and assumed the lesson was permanent. I was wrong about that. I recalibrated. I continued.
We all did. An entire generation.
We've seen supply chains fail. Alliances dissolve. Economies collapse and reassemble into something recognisable but not identical. We've watched the things that feel terminal turn out not to be — not cleanly, not fairly, but survivable.
And right now, while the world catastrophises loudly about everything simultaneously, the people with the most direct experience of how these things tend to resolve are sitting quietly in kitchens and supermarkets across the world.
Keeping their counsel.
Because nobody thought to ask for it.
Here's what I'd say, if asked.
The world is alarming. It has been alarming before. The specific configuration is new. The underlying dynamics are not. Adaptation is less heroic than the narrative around it suggests — it is mostly ordinary people making ordinary adjustments until a new ordinary becomes possible.
That tin of tomatoes was 94p. Up from 67p eighteen months ago.
I bought it anyway. You make the adjustments. That's all there is.
And we know that — because we've done it before.
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